Gay & LGBTQ-Affirming Therapist in West Hollywood

Therapy with someone who understands the community — because he’s part of it.

West Hollywood is one of the most vibrant LGBTQ+ communities in the world. It’s a place where you can live openly, love freely and be yourself. But living here also comes with its own set of pressures — the intensity of the social scene, the pervasiveness of substance use, the way comparison culture seeps into everything from the gym to the apps, and the unspoken expectation that because you live in WeHo, you should have it all figured out.

You don’t have to have it all figured out. And you don’t have to navigate it alone.

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a gay man who has worked with the LGBTQ+ community throughout my entire career. My West Hollywood office is located at 8271 Melrose Avenue — right in the heart of WeHo, easily accessible whether you’re coming from the neighborhood, Beverly Hills, Hollywood, Fairfax, or anywhere across the Westside.

Why choose a therapist in West Hollywood who specializes in LGBTQ+ Care?

West Hollywood has no shortage of therapists. But there’s a difference between a therapist who is “LGBTQ-friendly” and a therapist who lives and breathes this community. When you work with me, you don’t have to spend your sessions explaining the dynamics of the gay community, the nuances of dating as a gay man, or why your family’s reaction to your identity still weighs on you. I already understand. That means we can skip the intro class on gay and queer life and get to the work that actually changes things.

I specialize in working with gay men who are navigating:

Addiction and recovery — including alcohol, substances, and the complicated relationship many gay men have with party culture. I take a compassionate, flexible approach — whether your goal is harm reduction, sobriety, or something in between.

Anxiety and overwhelm — the constant noise in your head, the pressure to perform, the worry that won’t shut off.

Relationship challenges — whether you’re struggling in a current relationship, recovering from one, or trying to figure out why you keep repeating the same patterns.

Grief and loss — including the kinds of grief the world doesn’t always recognize: the loss of chosen family, community members, a sense of safety, or the life you thought you’d have.

Negative self-image and internalized shame — the feeling that you’re not enough, despite everything you’ve accomplished.

What is it Like to come to the Melrose Avenue office ?

The office at 8271 Melrose Avenue is located on one of West Hollywood’s most well-known streets, surrounded by shops, restaurants, and the energy that makes this neighborhood what it is. It’s easy to get to from anywhere in WeHo, Hollywood, Beverly Hills, the Fairfax District, or Mid-City. Street parking and lot parking are available nearby.

I also see clients at my Larchmont Village office at 627 N Larchmont Blvd and offer online sessions across California. Many of my clients choose a mix depending on what works best for their week.

You Deserve a therapist who doesn’t just accept you — but truly understands you.

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Frequently asked questions About therapy in West Hollywood

Do you only work with LGBTQ+ clients?

My practice specializes in LGBTQ+ affirming therapy, and the majority of my clients are gay men. However, I welcome anyone who feels my approach and areas of expertise are a good fit for them.

What does a first appointment look like?

We’ll start with a free 15-minute video consultation so we can connect and determine if we’re a good match. There’s no pressure and no obligation. If we decide to move forward, we’ll schedule your first full session at a time that works for you.

Do you accept insurance?

I do not accept insurance but can provide a receipt of services for submission to your insurance company for possible reimbursement. You can find detailed information on my Rates & Insurance page.

Can I switch between in-person and online sessions?

Absolutely. I know life in LA means your schedule can change week to week. We can meet at the Melrose office, the Larchmont office, or online — whatever works best for you that week.

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your healing journey Today.

alanmeiermft@gmail.com

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